We’ve all heard the phrase, “riding coattails” and in some form or fashion we’ve all been there…relying on someone to bridge the gap in a relationship – a very common scenario is between a parent and child…the mom (or dad) is consistently the one to bridge the gap in communication.
While the Mom/Dad may initially have the best motives to bond the two parties, ultimately she/he is in the way and no true bond ever forms – there is no “bridge” – only a barrier.
Now let’s take this example and apply it to our relationship with our Heavenly Father…have you found yourself using another person as a go-between in your relationship with Him? Perhaps you don’t even realize it – I certainly didn’t.
Yes, we all need teachers, coaches, mentors, and the like to share perspectives – but there is a very fine line between facilitating from the side line and getting in the middle. There is only ONE bridge in our relationship with God – and that bridge is the cross.
One of the studies my group went through last summer was the Bridge Illustration – I’m sure there are many studies using this method for presenting the gospel – the one we studied was Bearing Fruit in God’s Family (Session 7). When we went through the study the principles all made sense, but like so much of our walk, there are phases of revelation. In a performance oriented world, I struggled for some time to accept there was NOTHING I could do to earn salvation or God’s love – in a You Can Do It! culture, it’s difficult to accept we can’t get there on our own – salvation is God’s gift to us! Once we embrace His love and grace, it opens the door to so much more…
“8 For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith —and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— 9 not by works, so that no one can boast.” Ephesians 2:8-9 (NIV)
Receiving God’s gift of salvation is our open invitation into a personal one-on-one relationship with Him. Christ’s death on the cross is the bridge!
“8 But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:8 (NIV)
Christ’s sacrifice on the cross tore the veil inviting us into a direct relationship with God. I recently read a deovotional on John 14:6 that wove the pieces together – it was definitely one of those ah-ha moments and fits so perfectly into this message. Author Susy Medeski discusses the meaning behind John 14:6:
“There are 3 gates or doorways in the tabernacle. The first was on the east side of the compound, the only way in, and took people and priests alike into the courtyard where the brazen altar was located. This entrance was called “deherej – Way.” The second doorway was the entrance to the Holy Place, which could only be entered by the priests, and was called “emet – Truth.” Finally, there was a veil that separated the Holy Place from the Most Holy Place and could only be entered once a year by the high priest and it was called “chayah – Life.” Boy, doesn’t that shed some light on Yeshua’s words!”
How wonderful is that? Like I said, an ah-ha moment… As we progress in our walk, we have to earnestly ask God to search our heart and reveal any roadblocks in our relationship with Him. Like any new and undeveloped relationship, conversation at first can seem a bit awkward. Take these words of encouragement and press on! Unlike other relationships, this is one where you will never be disappointed.